Let’s get real—conflict in marriage? It’s bound to happen. But here’s the good news: while conflict is inevitable, combat doesn’t have to be. Conflict resolution in marriage is possible.
Think of your relationship like a safety net. Ever see those trapeze artists at the circus? They make daring moves, but they’re secure because they’ve got a net below them. In marriage, our commitment to each other is that safety net. It’s what reminds us that no single argument is going to destroy our relationship. If you don’t feel that safety net in place, it’s time to revisit your commitment and make sure both of you feel secure.
Now, how can you deal with conflict without slipping into combat mode? Let me walk you through some simple steps that have worked for my wife and I — because trust me, we’ve been there!
Recognize the “Leaning” States in Your Relationship
In marriage, we tend to go through three emotional states:
- Leaning In: You’re connected,…
