Do You Love Me? How to Stop Needing Reassurance in a Relationship

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Do you find that you’re constantly seeking and needing reassurance in a relationship? That was me just a few short years ago. 

Do you love me? How much? More than anything? More than anyone? Will you never leave me? Promise? What if you change your mind?

These were questions I put to my husband (then-boyfriend) Nathan at 26, 27, 28, and occasionally, at 29.

Finally, I can say that, for the most part, I no longer ask these questions. I no longer seek constant reassurance of his love for me. I no longer feel insecurity in relationships. And the story has a happy ending. I got through this issue. We got through the issue together. We’ve now been married for 3+ years and we are in a better, more loving place than ever. 

That’s not to say that I’m *completely cured.* While…

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