Most Wednesday nights, we have sex. Why Wednesdays, you ask? Because our teenagers are out of the house, and we have a two-hour window to enjoy some uninterrupted time together. #HumpDay. But last Wednesday, I was wiped. Like, barely-keeping-my-eyes-open exhausted. It wasn’t that I didn’t want to be with my husband—I still find him incredibly attractive—but getting in the mood felt impossible. I was too tired for sex!
I know I’m not alone in this. Many couples want to stay connected but struggle with exhaustion. Finding balance is key, so I’ve put together four practical ways to maintain intimacy—even when you’re too tired for sex.
1. Intimacy Without Sex
Physical closeness doesn’t always have to mean sex. Try:
✔ Back rubs
✔ Holding hands
✔ Cuddling before falling asleep
Intimacy is about connection, and these small gestures can still make you feel close.
2. Schedule It
Yes, we’re big advocates for scheduling sex! Why? Because it ensures that intimacy…
