Do you fight about sex in your marriage? You’re not alone.
One of most common arguments among married couples is how often they’re having sex. Frequently, it comes down to one spouse wanting sex more than the other. This can lead to trouble in the bedroom — and relationship. If more couples understood the concept of desire styles, there could be a lot less conflict and a lot more sex!
A desire style is the way in which you experience an interest to have sex. Desire is not a drive, like hunger. Sexual desire actually works more like curiosity. Think of it like this: What has to happen for you to be motivated to have sex? It is also important to understand that there is a difference between desire and arousal. Desire is your motivation to want to have sex, while arousal is your mind and body’s physical response.
